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No, I don't need help with my homework.
I know this is something that can't be forced, but I have heard from a lot of the dates I've gone on lately that they just didn't feel the chemistry. I don't think I've ever had a problem with this in the past. I usually have great chemistry with most everyone I meet.
So is it a vibe I put off? Does it mean that maybe I'm not really ready to be jumping into anything? It just seems strange to me.
mbarlow
10-01-2008, 10:16 AM
No, I don't need help with my homework.
I know this is something that can't be forced, but I have heard from a lot of the dates I've gone on lately that they just didn't feel the chemistry. I don't think I've ever had a problem with this in the past. I usually have great chemistry with most everyone I meet.
So is it a vibe I put off? Does it mean that maybe I'm not really ready to be jumping into anything? It just seems strange to me.
It means you are not clicking with her.
Try completing her sentences.
Julie
10-01-2008, 10:18 AM
Maybe you try too hard, and that's offputting...
I dunno though
It means you are not clicking with her.
Try walking around naked.
I heard this helps.
Maybe you aren't into her as much as you think therefore that vibe is put out there.
It's not just one. This is 5 now.
remo.williams
10-01-2008, 10:38 AM
i try to be a nice guy. but hearing this...it might just be you. not that there's anything wrong with you (that I know of)
how are you getting these dates? friends hooking you up? online?
I would maybe try a new avenue.
It's not just one. This is 5 now.
i try to be a nice guy. but hearing this...it might just be you. not that there's anything wrong with you (that I know of)
how are you getting these dates? friends hooking you up? online?
I would maybe try a new avenue.
I'm fairly confident that it is me. No offense taken by that at all.
Friends and family have hooked me up. Done a little of the online thing.
Midnight
10-01-2008, 10:58 AM
No, I don't need help with my homework.
I know this is something that can't be forced, but I have heard from a lot of the dates I've gone on lately that they just didn't feel the chemistry. I don't think I've ever had a problem with this in the past. I usually have great chemistry with most everyone I meet.
So is it a vibe I put off? Does it mean that maybe I'm not really ready to be jumping into anything? It just seems strange to me.
i think they have figured out you are a gay man.
i think they have figured out you are a gay man.
This very well could be the case too. Ha!
Maybe you need to take some time from the dating scene until the right person just comes along. It sucks being set up and rarely works.
I think this is probably exactly what I need to do. It's quite obvious that I'm giving off a vibe that I'm not ready for anything. Like I said, it's very strange for me not to have chemistry with people. It's still disheartening though.
remo.williams
10-01-2008, 11:24 AM
But he likes bewbs!
here's a tip...don't stare at the boobs when you're on date. they tend to not like this.
bill s preston esq
10-01-2008, 11:33 AM
here's a tip...don't stare at the boobs when you're on date. they tend to not like this.
Whatever. They all want it.
remo.williams
10-01-2008, 11:38 AM
Especially if they are fake.
really?
bill s preston esq
10-01-2008, 11:41 AM
Especially if they are fake.
My sister-in-law got D's and then wore super baggy sweaters or big clothes all the time. We didn't even find out for well over a year. Then, I really wanted to see them.
remo.williams
10-01-2008, 11:45 AM
My sister-in-law got D's and then wore super baggy sweaters or big clothes all the time. We didn't even find out for well over a year. Then, I really wanted to see them.
then? as in you don't want to know?
bill s preston esq
10-01-2008, 11:52 AM
then? as in you don't want to know?
Oh. I still do, of course. That's one thing about being a guy......once you've seen one pair, you want to see the rest.
Oh. I still do, of course. That's one thing about being a guy......once you've seen one pair, you want to see the rest.
This makes me wish I had sisters/female cousins with hot friends.
It means you are not clicking with her.
Try completing her sentences.
And I'm not sure how I missed this.
I should have absolutely known that this was the end all, be all to chemistry.
runner73074
10-01-2008, 12:54 PM
how many time have you gone out before you get the chemistry talk. What kind of activities do you do on these dates?
Have you tried wearing ass-less chaps?
how many time have you gone out before you get the chemistry talk. What kind of activities do you do on these dates?
I'll usually get the chemistry talk when I ask for the second date.
And all sorts of things ... dinner, drinks, mini golf ... usually activities that involve talking. But most of the time I just feel like listening. It's like when I get put in that situation, I just lock up. I'm not usually like that either. I can start a conversation about anything with anyone.
Have you tried wearing ass-less chaps?
Yes. That only got me into more trouble because that date called me a flaming homo.
ylex0t
10-01-2008, 01:35 PM
Yes. That only got me into more trouble because that date called me a flaming homo.
Sounds like she was just jealous she did not wear hers as well.
Sounds like she was just jealous she did not wear hers as well.
You're probably right!
Brad_Lee
10-01-2008, 03:49 PM
Just start banging the chicks two at a time. They'll talk to each other.
So I've heard.
mbarlow
10-01-2008, 03:53 PM
Just start banging the chicks two at a time. They'll talk to each other.
So I've heard.
awesome.
However, it did not work for me.
bill s preston esq
10-01-2008, 03:54 PM
Yes. That only got me into more trouble because that date called me a flaming homo.
Chicks dig the gay guys.
bill s preston esq
10-01-2008, 03:55 PM
Upon further thought, you really should play up the gay factor. Hook them in that way and then lead them to believe that they are "turning" you. They'll totally want to have the sex at some point to find out if they have what it takes to make a gay man straight.
remo.williams
10-01-2008, 04:03 PM
Upon further thought, you really should play up the gay factor. Hook them in that way and then lead them to believe that they are "turning" you. They'll totally want to have the sex at some point to find out if they have what it takes to make a gay man straight.
it worked for adam sandler and jessica biel.
Upon further thought, you really should play up the gay factor. Hook them in that way and then lead them to believe that they are "turning" you. They'll totally want to have the sex at some point to find out if they have what it takes to make a gay man straight.
This sounds like a fun game to play in a bar one night.
But don't be overly gay....come off somewhat snobbish. Most gay men are slightly conceited.
Maybe you should come out so I can try it out on you and see if it works. haha
(I'm sure you had to see that one coming from about four miles away.)
Harley
10-01-2008, 04:17 PM
I am still working on trying to turn my husband straight Imo...I have my hands full.
I would have thought that the Wal Mart boobs would have done the trick.
Harley
10-01-2008, 04:21 PM
I know...I have pulled out all the stops.
Does he know that he gets to bang a MILF?
Harley
10-01-2008, 04:25 PM
Should I have his son's friend tell him?
Your call on that. Do you think that would help?
Personally, I think he shouldn't have to be told. It should be as obvious to him as it is to everone else.
After reading this thread I cant help but think that maybe you need to take some time away from dating. Take care of yourself-work out, run, lift,hike or whatever makes you confident. In doing so your confidence will rise and you wont be as pressed to find a gal. As soon as you stop wondering when and dont give a shit, it will happen.
just my .02
mbarlow
10-01-2008, 04:32 PM
Well he IS gay.
He prolly just needs a hotter girl, like me or Pooch.
Harley
10-01-2008, 04:32 PM
Well he IS gay.
I keep forgetting.
Sorry I couldn't be more helpful. I will check back in later to see if some of the more creative people on the board were able to help.
After reading this thread I cant help but think that maybe you need to take some time away from dating. Take care of yourself-work out, run, lift,hike or whatever makes you confident. In doing so your confidence will rise and you wont be as pressed to find a gal. As soon as you stop wondering when and dont give a shit, it will happen.
just my .02
Can I go with the "I need a hotter chick like Girla, MB, or Pooch" theory? I like that one better.
In talking with a couple of other people today, this is probably the road I'm going to take for a while. I appreciate everyone's two cents today.
I don't know why we keep beating around the lack of bush girls.
I hope you don't mind, but I went ahead and fixed that for you.
Harley
10-01-2008, 07:02 PM
I don't know why we keep beating around the bush girls.
I think we would all enjoy you three beatiing around the bush.
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